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The Hidden Anxiety Affecting Leadership Performance

September 19, 20243 min read

As leaders, executives are often expected to stay calm and confident in all situations, whether they’re leading meetings or attending social events. But underneath that polished appearance, many executives struggle with hidden anxiety. This type of anxiety might not be visible to others, but it can have a big impact on how they feel and perform. Anxiety can show up in many different ways, like physical symptoms such as sweating and shaking, or emotional responses like self-doubt or wanting to avoid certain situations altogether.

What Causes Anxiety in Executives?

For several reasons, executives might feel anxious in meetings or social events. One major cause is the fear of public speaking. Even though it’s a common part of their role, many leaders feel pressure when they have to give an important presentation. They may worry about saying the right things, engaging their audience, or delivering their message clearly. Even for those who speak regularly, the fear of making a mistake or not performing well can feel overwhelming. 

Another common cause of anxiety is social situations. Executives often need to meet new people or navigate unfamiliar social settings. The pressure to make a good impression, connect with others, or avoid saying the wrong thing can be stressful. For some, this social anxiety makes it hard to relax and be themselves in these moments. The combination of these pressures—speaking in front of groups and handling social interactions—can make what seem like routine events feel overwhelming and stressful.

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How Anxiety Impacts Leadership and Performance

When anxiety takes hold, it doesn’t just affect how an executive feels—it also impacts how they perform as leaders. Anxiety can make it hard to think clearly, which can lead to hesitation or second-guessing decisions. This mental fog can cause leaders to be more cautious or afraid of taking risks, which may reduce creativity and make it harder to think outside the box. It can also affect how they interact with others, making it harder to build strong relationships with colleagues and clients.

If anxiety continues unchecked, it can seriously limit an executive’s ability to do their job well. They might start focusing too much on small details, driven by perfectionism, or they may feel the need to over-prepare for every task, which can lead to burnout. In some cases, anxiety causes people to avoid certain tasks or situations altogether, such as delaying important decisions or putting off challenging conversations. This avoidance can add even more stress, making it harder to manage day-to-day responsibilities.

Recognizing the Signs of Anxiety

It’s important to recognize the signs of anxiety in yourself or others, especially in leadership roles. By spotting these signs early, individuals and organizations can address anxiety before it affects performance or well-being. Common signs of anxiety in executives include:

  • Physical symptoms: These might include sweating, shaking, a racing heartbeat, or feeling short of breath during meetings or social events.

  • Emotional responses: Executives may experience self-doubt, fear of failure, or a strong urge to avoid certain tasks, events, or social situations.

  • Cognitive challenges: Anxiety can cause trouble focusing, memory issues, or a constant flow of racing thoughts that are hard to control.

  • Behavioral changes: Some executives may start worrying too much, striving for perfection in everything, or putting things off because they feel too overwhelmed to begin.

Managing anxiety is essential for personal well-being and professional performance, especially in leadership roles. Several helpful strategies can make a difference. For example, practicing mindfulness can help executives stay present and calm, while realistic preparation can ease the pressure of presentations or meetings. It’s also important to foster a supportive work environment where anxiety is recognized and addressed openly, rather than ignored or brushed aside.

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